Could You Tell Me, Please?

    Have you ever had difficulty saying "No" at any particular moment? Or have you ever felt guilty setting boundaries? Well, those are people-pleasers. People-pleasing is associated with a personality trait known as feeling overly concerned with pleasing others and earning their approval as a way to maintain relationships. This usually happens when we are at the office or party.    A people-pleaser is a person who puts others' needs ahead of their own. This type of person is highly attuned to others and often seen as helpful and kind, but people-pleasers can also have trouble advocating for themselves. There are several signs that might be a people-pleaser. They have a difficult time saying "no", preoccupied with what other people might think, or feel guilty when do tell people "no".    According to experts, people pleasers want everyone around them to be happy and they will do whatever it takes to keep them that way. They can often be perfectionists