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Practice of Patience

 


  Let's take a seat back together, what are the main qualities we need to inculcate to be successful at work or in life? Yes, hard work and reliability are some of them. However, one quality that is more important but not quite often discussed is patience. 

  Patience is our ability to wait without becoming upset, annoyed, or angry. It's about self-control rather than lashing out and complaining. When one is patient, one is calmer and more open to changes. Patience is a virtue, but it's not always easy to do. Let's say, we all want instant gratification and want things without waiting. That means we have very little patience.

  If we understand the importance of patience, we understand of being patient tries to stay calm and focused even in situations where waiting is not easy. This is why patience is an important life skill. It can lead to transforming our relationships, potential, and peace. In this article, let's talk about how to practice patience.

  Make yourself wait. The best way to practice is willing to make yourself wait. According to a study, waiting for things actually makes us happier in the long run. To get started, try something small like waiting a few extra minutes to stand in the queue at a shopping centre. You will begin to gain more patience as you practice. 

  Focus on important things. We all have a lot of things in our lives that take time away from what is important. This can relieve the stress from our lives if we stop doing things that are not important. Look at the daily schedule, if you don't have one take out two or three things that are not important. It's time to learn to say no to things that cause stress and make us impatient.

  Relax dan take deep breaths. Above all, just take relax and take deep breaths. Taking slow deep breaths can help calm the mind and body. This is the easiest way to help ease any impatient feelings you are experiencing. if that doesn't help, have a walk outside to clear your mind, and helpful in getting focused back on what's important. 

  Patience is sometimes called the mother of all virtues. It is very difficult to practice at first, but if we believe in patience will be easy to achieve. It is time we all slow down and practice a little more patience. We would be less stressed, calmer, and more mindful of the things that stress us out. Worth trying, isn't it? 

Thank you for your time and as always have a nice day 😀. 


References:

  1. 10 Powerful Benefits of Being Patient (2019). Available at: https://contentmentquesting.com/10-powerful-benefits-of-being-patient/.
  2. 4 Tips to Help You Be a More Patient Person, Science Says You Will be Happier (2017). Available at: https://www.inc.com/rhett-power/4-tips-to-help-you-be-a-more-patient-person-science-says-you-will-be-happier.html.
  3. The Skill of Patience - Columbia Metropolitan Magazine (2022). Available at: https://columbiametro.com/article/the-skill-of-patience/#:~:text=Patience%20transforms%20relationships.,from%20the%20perspective%20of%20another.
  4. The Importance of Patience in Life: 8 Benefits (2022). Available at: https://www.betterup.com/blog/importance-of-patience-in-life.
  5. Kishore, K. (2020) Importance Of Patience In Self-Development, Harappa. Available at: https://harappa.education/harappa-diaries/importance-of-patience/.


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